I read a report on the daily mail which stated that December and January are the busiest month for divorces and break up’s.  I find such reports rather distasteful. Are the couples really rushing in the things these days?  I strongly feel that they are rushing in. Instead of getting caught in momentary pleasure the girl and the boy both need to communicate to each other about their goals aspirations and ambitions in all the spheres of life.  I happen to work as a counselor at times and most cases that have come to me are about problems in relationship.  Most problems I feel arise due to the fact that persons are not very aware of their own needs, desires and wants. The firm called Bross Bennett has come up with a list of questions that a couple should ask each other before they decide to live with each other or before they decide to wed.  Having seen the glimpses of the questions, I feel that couples should definitely undertake this exercise.  It deals with areas and issues that can become bone of contention between both the partners.  This includes careers, intrusiveness from the in-laws as well as the financial sharing and housework.  I know that personally these are the areas where most problems arise.